Answering my own question.... I wrote the below unit which works well for me.
Delphi provides CreateMessageDialog() to give you a dialog template, which you can modify before displaying. I used that to create a function I called MessageDlgCustom, which takes the same parameters as a standard MessageDlg, but adds one more for replacement button titles.
It correctly handles custom fonts and automatically adjusts buttons to be wide enough for their message. If the buttons overflow the dialog, then that gets adjusted too.
After using that unit, the below sample works:
case MessageDlgCustom('Save your changes?',mtConfirmation,
[mbYes,mbNo,mbCancel],
['&Yes, I would like to save them with this absurdly long button',
'&No, I do not care about my stupid changes',
'&Arg! What are you talking about? Do not close the form!'],
nil) //nil = no custom font
of
mrYes:
begin
SaveChanges;
CloseTheForm;
end; //mrYes (save & close)
mrNo:
begin
CloseForm;
end; //mrNo (close w/o saving)
mrCancel:
begin
//do nothing
end; //mrCancel (neither save nor close)
end; //case
If someone else knows a better way, please share it.
unit CustomDialog;
interface
uses
Dialogs, Forms, Graphics, StdCtrls;
function MessageDlgCustom(const Msg: string; DlgType: TMsgDlgType;
Buttons: TMsgDlgButtons; ToCaptions: array of string;
customFont: TFont) : integer;
procedure ModifyDialog(var frm: TForm; ToCaptions : array of string;
customFont : TFont = nil);
implementation
uses
Windows, SysUtils;
function GetTextWidth(s: string; fnt: TFont; HWND: THandle): integer;
var
canvas: TCanvas;
begin
canvas := TCanvas.Create;
try
canvas.Handle := GetWindowDC(HWND);
canvas.Font := fnt;
Result := canvas.TextWidth(s);
finally
ReleaseDC(HWND,canvas.Handle);
FreeAndNil(canvas);
end; //try-finally
end;
function MessageDlgCustom(const Msg: string;
DlgType: TMsgDlgType; Buttons: TMsgDlgButtons; ToCaptions: array of string;
customFont: TFont): integer;
var
dialog : TForm;
begin
try
dialog := CreateMessageDialog(Msg, DlgType, Buttons);
dialog.Position := poScreenCenter;
ModifyDialog(dialog,ToCaptions,customFont);
Result := dialog.ShowModal;
finally
dialog.Release;
end; //try-finally
end;
procedure ModifyDialog(var frm: TForm; ToCaptions: array of string;
customFont: TFont);
const
c_BtnMargin = 10; //margin of button around caption text
var
i,oldButtonWidth,newButtonWidth,btnCnt : integer;
begin
oldButtonWidth := 0;
newButtonWidth := 0;
btnCnt := 0;
for i := 0 to frm.ComponentCount - 1 do begin
//if they asked for a custom font, assign it here
if customFont <> nil then begin
if frm.Components[i] is TLabel then begin
TLabel(frm.Components[i]).Font := customFont;
end;
if frm.Components[i] is TButton then begin
TButton(frm.Components[i]).Font := customFont;
end;
end;
if frm.Components[i] is TButton then begin
//check buttons for a match with a "from" (default) string
//if found, replace with a "to" (custom) string
Inc(btnCnt);
//record the button width *before* we changed the caption
oldButtonWidth := oldButtonWidth + TButton(frm.Components[i]).Width;
//if a custom caption has been provided use that instead,
//or just leave the default caption if the custom caption is empty
if ToCaptions[btnCnt - 1]<>'' then
TButton(frm.Components[i]).Caption := ToCaptions[btnCnt - 1];
//auto-size the button for the new caption
TButton(frm.Components[i]).Width :=
GetTextWidth(TButton(frm.Components[i]).Caption,
TButton(frm.Components[i]).Font,frm.Handle) + c_BtnMargin;
//the first button can stay where it is.
//all other buttons need to slide over to the right of the one b4.
if (1 < btnCnt) and (0 < i) then begin
TButton(frm.Components[i]).Left :=
TButton(frm.Components[i-1]).Left +
TButton(frm.Components[i-1]).Width + c_BtnMargin;
end;
//record the button width *after* changing the caption
newButtonWidth := newButtonWidth + TButton(frm.Components[i]).Width;
end; //if TButton
end; //for i
//whatever we changed the buttons by, widen / shrink the form accordingly
frm.Width := Round(frm.Width + (newButtonWidth - oldButtonWidth) +
(c_BtnMargin * btnCnt));
end;
end.