From the DOT Guide http://www.graphviz.org/pdf/dotguide.pdf on page 4 it says the following:
When drawn, a
node’s actual size is the greater of the requested size and the area needed for its text
label, unless fixedsize=true, in which case the width and height values
are enforced.
Thus you simply need to add fixedsize=true to your code
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