<UserControl.Resources>
<Style x:Key="myLBStyle" TargetType="{x:Type ListBoxItem}">
<Style.Resources>
<SolidColorBrush x:Key="{x:Static SystemColors.HighlightBrushKey}"
Color="Transparent"/>
</Style.Resources>
</Style>
</UserControl.Resources>
and
<ListBox ItemsSource="{Binding Path=FirstNames}"
ItemContainerStyle="{StaticResource myLBStyle}">
You just override the style of the listboxitem (see the: TargetType is ListBoxItem)
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