What you describe works exactly as expected, assuming that you've set the HideSelection property of the ListView control to False. Here's a screenshot for demonstration purposes. I created a blank project, added a ListView control and a TextBox control to a form, added some sample items to the ListView, set its view to "Details" (although this works in any view), and set HideSelection to false. I handled the TextBox.Leave event just as you showed in the question, and added some simple logic to select the corresponding ListViewItem whenever its name was entered into the TextBox. Notice that "Test Item Six" is selected in the ListView:
Now, as I suspected initially, you're going to mess things up if you go monkeying around with setting the BackColor property yourself. I'm not sure why you would ever want to do this, as the control already uses the default selection colors to indicate selected items by default. If you want to use different colors, you should change your Windows theme, rather than trying to write code to do it.
In fact, if I add the line item.BackColor = Color.LightSteelBlue in addition to my existing code to select the ListViewItem corresponding to the name typed into the TextBox, I get exactly the same thing as shown above. The background color of the item doesn't change until you set focus to the control. That's the expected behavior, as selected items look different when they have the focus than they do when their parent control is unfocused. Selected items on focused controls are painted with the system highlight color; selected items on unfocused controls are painted with the system 3D color. Otherwise, it would be impossible to tell whether or not the ListView control had the focus. Moreover, any custom BackColor property is completely ignored by the operating system when the ListView control has the focus. The background gets painted in the default system highlight color.
Explicitly setting the focus to the ListView control, of course, causes the custom background color to be applied to the ListViewItem, and things render with a color that very much contrasts with the color scheme that I've selected on my computer (remember, not everyone uses the defaults). The problem, though, becomes immediately obvious: you can't set the focus to the ListView control because of the code you've written in the TextBox.Leave event handler method!
I can tell you right now that setting the focus in a focus-changing event is the wrong thing to do. It's a hard rule in Windows you're not allowed to do things like that, and the documentation even warns you explicitly not to do it. Presumably, your answer will be something along the lines of "I have to", but that's no excuse. If everything were working as expected, you wouldn't be asking this question in the first place.
So, what now? Your application's design is broken. I suggest fixing it. Don't try and monkey with setting the BackColor property yourself to indicate that an item is selected. It conflicts with the default way that Windows highlights selected items. Also, don't try and set the focus in a focus-changing event. Windows explicitly forbids this, and the documentation is clear that you're not supposed to do this. If the target computer doesn't have a mouse or keyboard, it's unclear how the user is going to set focus to anything else in the first place, unless you write code to do it, which you shouldn't be doing.
But I have surprisingly little faith that you'll want to fix your application. People who ignore warnings in the documentation tend to be the same people who don't listen to well-meaning advice on Q&A sites. So I'll throw you a bone and tell you how to get the effect you desire anyway. The key lies in not setting the ListViewItem's Selected property, which avoids the conflict between your custom BackColor and the system default highlight color. It also frees you from having to explicitly set the focus to the ListView control and back again (which, as we established above, isn't actually happening, given your Leave event handler method). Doing that produces the following result:
And here's the code—it's not very pretty, but this is just a proof of concept, not a sample of best practice:
public partial class Form1 : Form
{
public Form1()
{
InitializeComponent();
listView1.View = View.Details;
listView1.HideSelection = false;
}
private void textBox1_TextChanged(object sender, EventArgs e)
{
foreach (ListViewItem item in listView1.Items)
{
if (item.Text == textBox1.Text)
{
item.BackColor = Color.LightSteelBlue;
return;
}
}
}
private void textBox1_Leave(object sender, EventArgs e)
{
this.textBox1.Focus();
}
}
