If you want to represent this sort of structure in a relational database, then you need to use a hierarchy normally referred to as table inheritance. In table inheritance, you have a single table that defines a parent type, then child tables whose primary keys are also foreign keys back to the parent.
Using the Facebook example, you might have something like this:
User
------------
UserId (PK)
Item
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ItemId (PK)
ItemType (discriminator column)
OwnerId (FK to User)
Status
------------
ItemId (PK, FK to Item)
StatusText
RelationshipUpdate
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ItemId (PK, FK to Item)
RelationshipStatus
RelationTo (FK to User)
Like
------------
OwnerId (FK to User)
ItemId (FK to Item)
Compound PK of OwnerId, ItemId
In the interest completeness, it's worth noting that Facebook doesn't use an RDBMS for this sort of thing. They have opted for a NoSQL solution for this sort of storage. However, this is one way of storing such loosely-coupled information within an RDBMS.
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