server mode does not mean "not mixed". Those are different settings.
Mixed does mean that the JVM will mix compiled and interpreted code. You could optionally switch to fully interpreted mode with the switch -Xint (usually you don't want to do this).
Server mode means that the hot-spot-compiler will run with server-settings. The general assumption is that VMs in server-mode are long-running, so optimizations will be done with this in mind.
So if you see mixed mode, that is no sign that your VM is not running in server-mode.
EDIT: If you want to check what is really running, try the output of
System.out.println(System.getProperty("java.vm.name"));
System.out.println(System.getProperty("java.vm.info"));
At least for the Sun VM or OpenJDK this will give you a hint. You might notice that you'll always run the Server VM if you are on a 64 bit system.
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