Urk. First off, never, EVER do this:
$session_id = $_REQUEST['session_id'];
This causes a security truck-hole we refer to as 'session fixation' ( read more: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Session_fixation ).
It seems you're pretty heavy on security. If you need to share data from site 1 to site 2, you should do it through a single consumption bridge:
1). Click on a link on Site 1 to a handler file, let's call it redir.php.
2). Redir.php first checks the existing session data.
3). Redir.php writes relevant info into a DB row, along with some sort of identifier (say, an MD5 hash of the user ID + '_'+ current time), plus a 'consumed' flag, set false.
4). Redir.php does a 301 redirect to Site 2, along with the identifier.
5). Site 2 reads the relevant row out of the DB.
6). If the data is good and has not yet been 'consumed', return a success and mark the data as consumed.
7). If the data has been consumed, throw some sort of error.
There are more complex ways of doing this, but I think this handles what you're trying to do.
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