This can be done using STR_TO_DATE.
Example:
INSERT INTO useless_table (id, date_added) VALUES(
1, STR_TO_DATE('03/08/2009', '%m/%d/%Y'));
EDIT: Please also consider MarkR's solution, because it's the right thing to do[tm].
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