I change the distance formula to something that works since mysql 5.7.
You didn't_ specify your database or presented a fiddle example to show your system, so i selected 5.7 as mini9mum and it works also in 8.0 as you see in the fiddle.
the inner query needs two things the user id who searches and his position, because he is excluded from the results and of course to calculate the distance.
The result from the query is checked in the where clause-I hope i got the right idea, so you should check that
CREATE TABLE users
(`id` varchar(5), `name` varchar(5), `longitude` varchar(11), `latitude` varchar(11))
;
INSERT INTO users
(`id`, `name`, `longitude`, `latitude`)
VALUES
('1', 'Mark', '-76.316528', '40.036027'),
('2', 'John', '-95.995102', '41.25716'),
('3', 'Paul', '-82.337036', '29.645095'),
('4', 'Dave', '-82.337036', '29.645095'),
('5', 'Chris', '-76.316528', '40.036027'),
('6', 'Manny', '-82.338036', '29.645095'),
('7', 'Fred', '-82.338036', '29.646095')
;
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CREATE TABLE matches
(`id` int, `sender` int, `receiver` int, `status` int)
;
INSERT INTO matches
(`id`, `sender`, `receiver`, `status`)
VALUES
(1, 3, 4, 0),
(2, 1, 5, 1),
(3, 6, 3, 1)
;
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SELECT
id
, ( 3959 * acos( cos( radians(37) ) * cos( radians( latitude ) )
* cos( radians( longitude )
- radians(-122) ) + sin( radians(37) )
* sin(radians(latitude)) ) ) AS distance
FROM
users
HAVING distance < 50
ORDER BY distance
DESC LIMIT 20
id | distance
:- | -------:
SELECT
a.id
,a.distance
FROM
(Select
id,
st_distance_sphere(POINT(-82.337036, 29.645095 ), POINT(`longitude`, `latitude` ))/1000 as distance
FROM
users u
WHERE id <> 3
HAVING distance < 50
ORDER BY distance
DESC LIMIT 20) a
WHERE
a.id in (SELECT `sender` FROM matches WHERE status = 1)
OR a.id NOT IN ( SELECT `sender` FROM matches UNION ALL SELECT `receiver` FROM matches )
ORDEr BY a.distance ASC
id | distance
:- | ------------------:
6 | 0.09663995445895139
7 | 0.14732089261518266
db<>fiddle here